I wasnt exactly comparing myself to her. My parents are good to him. I am also earning and I do have to adjust wd a lot of ppl. Why is that I have to adjust with him? Why is that my husband supports his mom even if she is wrong? Are you telling me that a mans favourite will always be his mom even if shes wrong? I am fine if he loves his mom more than me but i feel its not right if he supports her even after she does things to upset me. I dont have a kid yet.. but once I have I am thinking I should team him or her against his grandma.. I am not talking logically i know. I have that much anger inside me because of my husbands and MIL character.