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Who Am I? - Part 5

Discussion in 'New Member Area' started by IL_Admin, May 18, 2011.

  1. charlesanderson

    charlesanderson New IL'ite

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    Hi Everyone!

    My Name is Charles Anderson, Glad to find IL. I think that is just what I need to go further. So, happy to meet you all folks!
     
  2. HARIZ

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    I am Hariz From Kollam.. Working as an engineer
     
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    I am a wife, mother, health professional, plant based blogger and wannabe entrepreneur from Australia.
     
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    Hey everyone!!!
    I am ruby. Have been following this site for a while signed up just now.
     
  5. Vanani

    Vanani New IL'ite

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    Hello,

    I am unable to post. I got the registration email and clicked to CONFIRM. But I still see message insufficient privileges to post.

    Thanks.
     
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    pni New IL'ite

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    I am from southindia.
     
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    This is a very good forum to hear new remedies and ideas also to see the different issues people have faced and their solutions
     
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    I'm a Housewife. currently in US on H4, i feel being on H4 is a curse
     
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    How do I introduce myself?
    can't understand the procedure.
     
  10. Sandyr46

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    Healing is a journey. It never stops....I am Sandya

    I am still peeling onion layers off myself, after decades. I am learning new things about myself all the time.

    Recovery from abusive relationships takes time. Healing is a journey. Years of trauma are not something you get over overnight.

    Leaving an abusive relationship is one of the toughest things I’ve ever done.

    Taking that first step out of denial was the hardest one to take.

    My greatest time of healing/growth was when I spent 3 years completely alone … dealing with a broken heart and financial collapse. I had to finally sit still and face myself. The loneliest, most sad time of my life, and yet that’s where I was able to grow and heal. I cried and angered out years and years of abuse and hurts. The wounds were finally able to heal . And yes it took those awful lonely years to do so.

    I had to grieve the loss of that fantasy future I had. Accept who he was now, not cling onto the hope of that fantasy man I had in my head. It was like being in the darkest of tunnels for a long time.

    So now, I take one day at a time and keep focusing on me and my recovery.

    My motto to 'ME'
    Heal YOU first.
    Then you’ll find happiness within. You’ll be able to be ‘happily single’ and not need a partner to feel whole or complete...
     

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