Hi, I got married in last June. I am staying in join family. I am working in software company. i am sharing cooking and cleaning work with my MIL in the morning and evening. Weekend also i am supporting her. Here my problem is i did not open my mouth when my MIL told anything which is hurting me lot. even i did not share this to my husband also. i was thinking if i share with him he might be will ask her and misunderstanding will come between us.. Even i did not respond if she spoke about my family. on that moment i just trying to change the topic and trying to come out from that place.After came alone i am crying and worrying about her speach. Whether i should ask my MIL on her face or i should leave as it is:rotfl. now i am thinking that if i did not open my mouth they will think me as i will not take care her words like that( she might be think me as if i(MIL) say anything she(me) will not mind so we can tell anything). i dont know where i should open my mouth and where i should be calm. Can you please give some advice for this. P.S By nature i wont reply back if i feel hurts. keeping silent and will try to forget that moment. i wont express.... Which character is correct. whether my character will affect my future????????:spin i confused lot. thinking thinking but did not get any solution.:bonk My friends and colleagues seems that they reply back to their MIL speach..