@IniyaaSri , at my ils place the maid is treated very badly. Even though she is around 60, my sils daughters being around 13 - 15 addresses her by name. Give her food on the floor and separate glass and plate. Once they had a full time maid and she was made to sleep on the floor on a bedsheet and that too infront of the toilet. She left the job in 3 days time. They are old and they cannot do anything with out a maid . Instead of treating them as a person who helps them without whom they cannot eat or dress well (she does cooking and washing) they are treated as someone who lives on their mercy. I tried changing my husbands attitude but he is silent infront of them. Least I can do is make my kids to respect whoever comes to help us .