Divorce can be immediate when you are involved in a physical, verbal abuse by your husband. But otherwise when you are not satisfied on whats happening with your life, is divorce a solution? How do we know its time for divorce? I am a 24 yr old married 2yrs back, i had a beautiful life b4 marriage , i had my job there, studied in a good collge.. but things turned hopeless after i got married n came to USA. My husband was never caring, concerned abt what i was doing . We never had a single vacation til now.I had hell time when i was jobless here. i have no relatives here , he had a couple of cousins and his life revolved around them. I used to suffocate at home , restless, no body to talk to(other than my parents i used to call them, but never expressed these things). I managed to get a job now, but still always a tear in my eye. I feel i m just being used to get money, do household, n ofcourse s**. I tried to express him my feeings towards such a life, he listens but continues the same. I love him a lot but love is mutual , it has to be from his side too. he never tortured me physically, but at the same time i m being overlooked. I am planning to have no kids till i get these problems resolved, giving it a span of 3 more yrs to check my patience. But is it still a reason for divorce?? What should i do plz help?