I always get some milk and water ready by the side of me for my son, 4 months old. My daughter,2yo always have a dinner and followed by a bottle of milk before sleeping and I will give her another milk early morning 5 -6 am, she do not take milk at night often as she tend to vomit it. When she have proper dinner she dont wake up in the middle of the night due to hunger, only in very rare occasion she might wake up. Usually I will feed my son every 3 hrs, change his diapers if needed and put him to sleep then do a milk for my daughter and change her diapers. today at 3am out of sudden my son started to cry, I guess he felt hungry a bit early, I woke up to get him his milk, he was screaming So loud woke his sister up, and she cried for milk as well. i was in the master bedroom with both kids, dh slept in a room opposite me as he was not feeling well and he said he do not want to get the kids sick, mil slept in another room opposite master bedroom. So now both kids crying and my son can really scream and cry when he is hungry. i woke up my dh to look after the kids while I do the milk for dd, it's been 5 min ++ since I called my dh, he have not shown up, both kids crying screaming, I did milk for my son, but I could not feed him as dd is crying as well, I went back again to wake up my dh but no response to me, my son was crying hard and started to even cough, I took my dd ran to downstairs got her milk ready came up and gave her milk to drink, quickly changed her diapers, then changed diapers for my son, and feed him. after 5min, dd finished her milk and slept, ds also finished his milk and slept. Drama started at 3.05am, completed screaming and crying , both asleep at 3.18am, neither my dh not mil take a peak of what's happening. I am having back pain and heel pain , but despite all had to run and get things done , felt like I'm helpless and alone. No point of raising his with dh, as he might say that's y u said u can take care of both kids ( I don't usually ask his mom'd help). Hope this also will pass .