this forum was about anybody having crushed on opposite sex after marriage, not about flirting with men or enjoying it or even about .an EMA is a serious thing which involves both parties. a crush is mostly one sided, as I would say it is all in my head . the other party need never know about it. i do know many friends who have had crushes at one time or another. but even in this anonymous forum not many are forthcoming. Sumtimes we like people without any reason, that can involve both male or female. we really do get on well with some people without any apparent logic.that is part of being human i suppose. but we are also mature enough to understand such temporary feelings as normal& never cross the line. we respect our marriage & these occasional crush cannot harm our loyalty towards our marriage. this is my take. it may sound immoral to some, but I guess being honest is also important.