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What Does A Wife Want?

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by TheCupid, Jun 24, 2016.

  1. TheCupid

    TheCupid Silver IL'ite

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    Wedding... What does it mean to a girl? Why does she get so excited?
    Why does she go head over heels for her better half? It's because now she has got someone to spend the rest of her life with... To love each other now and forever... With lot of dreams she begins her new life but will the dreams come true !? And what does a wife want?...

    Be it a love marriage or an arranged marriage, every girl's dream of living a happy life depends on the guy she chooses... And one thing that every girl wishes for is a life in which she is just the same as how she was before marriage. Ironically those wishes becomes unanswered!! So what happens next? And what does a wife want?..

    Right from the day one, till the days ending with infinity she wants one person,one important person for whom she has left her dear parents, her ever lovable friends, siblings, her hobbies, her fun, her mischiefs etc etc... The person is none other than her prince charming, her sweetie hubby.. Yes, now she has her guy, but from him what does a wife want?...


    She wants him, him alone.. Throughout the day, at the dawn and the dusk... Anyways by not being too greedy, she wants him at least for few hours to spend a quality time with. Its true that guys need to run all day long to earn and take care of the family, but guys when you're free, what does a wife want?...

    "Hey! Come on!! Its gonna be our day!!" Wish the day would start so!!
    Lazing on the bed, getting up when we feel like.. Cause, all the six days in a week, both run on separate lanes.. Work work work.... So one day, and that's Sunday to shut the sun off!! :) ;-)
    Happiness is seeing the kids inside us to play with each other! Time to go crazy.. She wants you to do whatever naughty stuffs you could ever do!! Get her a cup of coffee.. 'I love it, darling!', she would say.. And what next, each girl differs from each other.. Every girl is unique in her own ways!! So what does your wife want?...

    To be continued...
     
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  2. GoogleGlass

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    Should be interesting to listen from the ACE's mouth - Amor Cupid Eros :)

    Do continue...
     
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    Thanks for the reply!! Yes.. To b continued sooner :)
     
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    Good one, Waiting for the next part of the snippet....
     
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    "Stop! Think! And never forget!!" Remember this whenever you are with your wife :) Cause not all are same. Some love to sing, some love to dance, some love to chat, some stay quiet... Some love to shop, some love to ride, sometimes for a movie, sometimes to a temple, sometimes a park, a friend's home, or a parlor and sometimes nowhere, just to cuddle in your arms... But human minds are complex right!? So before doing anything, one must know what does a wife want?...

    A girl loves to do many things!! Sometimes all at a time... And sometimes not so... So when to do what? She needs love, she needs care, she needs romance, she needs fun, she needs peace, she needs freedom, she needs happiness, she needs surprises, she needs kisses, she needs hugs, she needs you to be the reason for all these after all!! So what does your wife want?...

    Love... For which she chose you. She needs you, your love.. She feels alive with your words of love. She love to hear you say "love you". As often you say, as happy she feels :) keep reminding her as how precious is she to you and how much you love her as your dear...
    Money and luxury is nothing in front of your true love... She loves her mom, dad, siblings and friends. When she is away from them, she showers all that love on you along with her very own love for you... So get drenched in the love shower :-* beyond this love, what does a wife want?....

    Care... Women are natural caregivers.. But she needs to be cared too, deep down in her heart she longs for her hubby's care.. Care is hidden in our everyday activities. Smile is a form of caring, it tells her how you care for spreading a smile on her face.. Help is a form of caring.. When she is busy doing her work preparing something for you, if you render some of your help it would seem to be a great care. A mom's care is incomparable to anybody else's. Till the day before marriage, she had her mom taking care of her. Now she has her own share of responsibilities, duties, sacrifices and compromises.. She needs to take care of everyone else in the home so whenever possible make her feel that she is being cared by you.. Caressing her hair, a kiss on her forehead, putting her on your chest/lap and so much more... Beyond this care, what does a wife want?...


    To be continued... :)
     
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    truly there should be pre-orientation courses for men to realize all this :)

    we tend to take it for granted and conveniently ignore all the signals and end up being thrashed. truly deserve. :)
     
  7. rajkumarxxx

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    TheCupid,

    Your first post, especially the last paragragh is a, 'pre-orientation' course in itself, to unmarried men. To a married man, like me, it it is a ,' reorientation course'.

    Very informative write-up !
     
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    " words of love", as you put it, and saying that, 'I love you' thing to the wife appears 'filmy' and ' unnatural' to husbands ! Saying it once in a while is fine, but saying the ,"words of love" as frequently as you emphasize, to the wife, I don't know any one does it in real life !
     
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    Very touching and informative !:thumbup::thumbup:

    Will try applying that tip in real life.

    Thanks so much for such nice writing !
     
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    Dear Cupid,

    While we wait for the rest of the snippet, no harm butting in with a comment. I enjoyed the lines I quoted above. Superbly written, superbly visualised. Of course, every girl is unique. I believe you totally. But probably all of them wish him to "do whatever naughty stuffs" he could ever do. The naughty stuff will differ from girl to girl I guess, thereby adding to their uniqueness.

    Lovely piece, once again.

    oj
     
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