"What appears as the end, may really be a new beginning !" -- A tribute thread !

indianguy2010 · Nov 21, 2011

dream.girl said: ↑

You will get to know, If you can go through my previous threads
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Hi dreamgirl,

I went through your latest thread http://www.indusladies.com/forums/life-without-spouse/150336-confused.html and understood your situation.

May God give you the strength and wisdom to understand the simple basic fact (which Indian culture refuses to acknowledge) that 'end of a marriage is NOT the end of one's life'

'What appears to be the end WILL certainly be a new beginning' in your life. Stay in touch. Bye !

SallyR · Nov 21, 2011

Thanks for sharing and made me aware of this amazing lady. Her life however short maybe was not for vain. I don't know how many of us can really say that about ourselves.

Women are capable of achieving anything they put their mind to...It doesn't matter if they're single, married, divorced or windowed. They say that behind every successful man there is a women...don't know if that statement is true but behind every successful [FONT=&quot][/FONT]women there doesn't have be a man.

indianguy2010 · Nov 22, 2011

SallyR said: ↑

...... They say that behind every successful man there is a women...don't know if that statement is true but behind every successful women there doesn't have to be a man.
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Wow..! SallyR...........! That was a great statement...!!

UmmaGumma · Nov 23, 2011

Not to belittle this Emani woman or anything but marriage is not the end of everything and any confident man or woman will pick the pieces up and move on and it is just a minor speed bump in the road of life. Any halfway confident women is not going to be bogged down with a divorce or separation and nor is it the end of life and many, many people in the world move on from crappy marriages and relationships to much better things.

If you want prominent examples like this Emani woman, take J.K Rowling. She had just gotten off a lousy marriage and was an unemployed single Mom when she started writing Harry Potter books. If you want example more close to home, then let me cite Indira Gandhi, who was not exactly divorced but she was a widow for the better part of her life. Michele Bachelet is a single mom and divorced when she became the Chilean PM 5 years ago. Julia Gillard has never been married and she has a boyfriend. So I could go on and on but you get the drift.

Oh and whole 'there is a women behind every successful man' is a big bag of baloney too. Successful men and women don't need some sidekicks and support groups to achieve things in life. There might have been a few cases where people were able to derive inspiration and support from their spouse but to say you need a woman to be a successful man or vice versa is stretching it and totally not true. I hope you can distinguish the difference between the two. Lots of successful men have had wives who are bat*hit crazy bitches from hell.

indianguy2010 · Nov 23, 2011

UmmaGumma said: ↑

..............many people in the world move on from crappy marriages and relationships to much better things.

............... There might have been a few cases where people were able to derive inspiration and support from their spouse but to say you need a woman to be a successful man or vice versa is stretching it and totally not true. I hope you can distinguish the difference between the two.[/QUOTE

Yes, Clearly.
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