Our marriage has lot of problems. Infact only problems. Ours is a love marriage. He is a south India and I am from Mumbai. My husband does not touch me at all. We fight but even when he is in a good mood, he does not touch me by himself. If I take the lead , I get a cold response. I think he just does not understand how to be romantic. He gives least importance to our sexual life. We married 11/2 years back and rarely have sex. The last time we had was 6 months back. I tried talking to him and he said "there are enough problems in my life and you are thinking about sex ?" i felt embarrassed talking about sex and asking him for sex but still I have told him my expectations and he makes me feel as if I am begging for sex. I know him for past 6 years (he never touched me even before marriage and I thought of him as a perfect gentleman).I have ALWAYS seen him worrying about something. He is of a sadistic kinds. eg. he will get very very angry because of traffic in India while he is driving in India. Every day morning his mood is completely off. This screws my day too. I spoke to him about his early morning mood swings and he said "give me a south Indian breakfast every morning and leave me alone for a while, I will be alright." He does not even touch my north Indian food at all. He hates it. He makes an ego issue out of everything. eg. if we go to mall and show him a good shirt then he does not even care to look at it. He may look but definitely wont buy anything of my choice. OR while parking our car if I show him a free spot he will never park at the spot I showed. There are many such small and silly incidents. Afterall I am a human being. If someone is just expecting things from you and in return you are not getting much then you become angry. My marriage is really in a very bad phase right now. We are good to each other once in 10-15 days. Most of the time we keep fighting. I would love to get divorced but being from an Indian society, it is not easy for me. I had hurt my parents while getting married to him , I can't hurt them anymore now. Is there any solution ?