My husband and I stay about 3 hours away from my in laws. Its been about a year and a half since we got married. and after marriage I moved to the US. I have not gone back to visit my family although I really want to. I was supposed to go visit my parents in the winter break from college that is now but that did happen because my FIL said that there is no reason for me to go to India now. He is actually a very nice person but because he sain dont go to India I felt upset about it. in this 1.5 years that i came here my FIL went to India twice and MIL once. Apparently they had good reason. But I dont. Does anyone think I am getting upset over nothing here? and also my husband thinks that I should go stay with his parents to help them out for 2 weeks now that I have vacation from college. I really dont want to do that . they may be the nicest people but I dont like going there that much . we visit them every month. I want to be at my apartment in my vacation. what do I tell him that will make me stay back here.