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Very Confused- Please Help!!!

Discussion in 'General Discussions' started by g3viks, Sep 3, 2019.

  1. anika987

    anika987 Finest Post Winner

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    Well..only problem you might have here is you won’t meet your hubby often..have you made any arrangements about it?
     
  2. g3viks

    g3viks New IL'ite

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    Going to grade 8 and grade4
     
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  3. anika987

    anika987 Finest Post Winner

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    Here and there it is just 8 years..
    Trust me time flies..
     
  4. g3viks

    g3viks New IL'ite

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    Hubby would try to move here after one year...but there is a job uncertainty ..also I moved abroad three years back and I didn't like it since then
     
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    This is a huge issue in India. Men notice,this women is living alone and try to take advantage
     
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  6. anika987

    anika987 Finest Post Winner

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    See this is quite worrying..

    We might be emotional driven but be practical too..

    With a situation like job uncertainty..it is quite tough.

    We have to think positives and negatives.

    On the positive side,If he finds the right job and moves back All is good which honestly..will take time.He has to find a job and also considering his age also,nowadays competition is very high especially in India,dealing with office politics, and finally he should be “happy” with his job..

    on the flip side,since it might take time
    To land the right job,he might not able to come right away and stay put for few more years.Men usually don’t like to land up with any job and they don’t like their career compromised.

    If you are financially very able,it might help but trust me “happiness” is very subjective.

    I love India and crazy about it but practicalities makes me stay put.

    I wish you all the best and please take an informed decision.

    Visit R2I Dilemma

    All your questions have answers..
     
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  7. anika987

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    True.I noticed even married women get into problems
     
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  8. HariLakhera

    HariLakhera Finest Post Winner

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    I can recommend a novel by Jumpa Lahiri 'The Namesake' and a 1999 movie 'East is East' dealing with the life in USA and UK respectively and eventual return of the protagonist back to home country at old age.
    You are still young and can make a calculated choice. It can not be an emotional choice like love for country, missing relatives, and so on. I can add only one thing life in India is very comfortable if you have good funds. One can live a very comfortable life with maid, driver and other help.
    I am saying this because I know the situation on both sides.
     
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  9. anika987

    anika987 Finest Post Winner

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    Hi are you in India or USA now?

    If you can provide us a list of positives and negatives about returning back to India,please let us know
     
  10. kveena

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    I am unable to start a conversation with you.
     
    Last edited: Sep 4, 2019

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