Hello, I want to vent out in hope of getting some mental peace. I am married with 2 school going kids. Coming to the issue, i feel i am the only one worring, planning, trying to execute things in the house. Even if its a usual outing, i plan even tiny things like what time we need to start getting ready, what time will we reach there, planning what time to get back home so that the kids are not too tired, should i take jacket for kids in case its cold, waterbtls, snacks .. and my list goes on.DH and kids would follow. I get frustrated when on weekend mornings i have to tell the kids to go brush so that the breakfast time doesn’t get delayed. All three of them would do their own things and are not bothered about the time. i am the only one getting stressed to finish things on time. We were planning to celebrate my dd’s bday today by having a cake cutting just at home. My point is all of us knew that we will have the cake cutting in the morning then why should i remind everybody that its getting late for brekafast ,cake cutting. Had to keep telling to go brush, go take bath, go dress up in the middle of my kitchen work! and what made me mad was nobody even wanted to look at the clock. I dont know whom i am angry at , is it my kids or my DH. Dh would def help but i have to say. I am getting angry that why should i keep reminding. Does he not know we have this plan. dd is 9yrs!! And as i knew it was late and i had help the kids get ready and had no time for myself to get dressed up and ended up avoiding to be in pics. I want to do things well planned, leisurely but never happens even for a small task. Planning, keeping up with time,making kids happy, making sure DH dsnt get grumpy by my nagging.... i end up getting stressed myself. And finally i get the name that i am always stressed about things and always running around like headless chicken!! And then i come to a point that fine when they are not bothered about their hunger, their comfort,delay in time etc.. why should i stress myself , i will jst stop getting bothered! But then this doesnt stay for long and i end up thinking anything and everything about them and again start my cycle of getting stressed for everything! any suggestions ladies? i dont knw if i sound silly but writing all these feelings makes be better. Thanks for your time and please if you think i am doing something wrong i am open to all suggestions.