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Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by cur123, May 17, 2019.

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  1. May 18, 2019 #51
    cur123

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    1) Who is the wife of elder brother A or B?
    B
    2) Whether parents of A and B are invited?
    ONLY A'S
    3) What is the reason for A not talking to FIL, BIL and SIL?
    SHE DSNT WANT anyone to come to mil . she thinks MIL will talk abt her behind her back. she hs some behavioral issues (according to her mother). pls she get annoyed easily. once mil asked her can u clean the fan cuz u r tall and i cant reach and maid is not there .i will do rest of the work..she replied ASK UR SON.
     
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    This is a tough thread to understand. And finally I think I might have cracked it.
    B is the elder son's wife. [@Sunshine04 went for partial credit, and flunked]
    A is the younger son's wife.
    A lives with PIL's, and believes that she'd (with her hubby and child)eventually inherit the home they are living in.
    B is interloping now and then, being in the good books of her mother in law and FIL, bad-mouthing A, and scheming to get in between A and her hoped-for inheritance. A feels threatened. A feels that the less her PIL's interact with any outsiders, the better it is for her and her future hold on the estate.

    We must expect lots more episodes on this family drama/dilemma.
    I would wish the PIL to live long :) and prosper.
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    WHENEVER U TALK WITH UR MOTHR IN LAW ...DO U BAD MOUTH OTHERS??? AND SCHEME ??? if YES THEN THATS WHY U THINK LIKE THAT ....because B has not given a single proof of badmouthing . how do u know ??? that means u must be that type:roflmao:
     
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    [QUOTE ....because B has not given a single proof of badmouthing . how do u know ??? that means u must be that type:roflmao:[/QUOTE]

    A) Constipated Face
    B) Idiot
    C) Discussion with MIL about A’s parents badmouthing her
    D) Talking to friends about how bad A is And friends agreeing how B is like a superior intelligent male .

    Just a few examples below of B badmouthing ( not necessarily to your MIL).
    Please play it fair .
     
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    hi
     
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    not badmouthing at all . if somebody abuses u and u complaint thats not called badmouthing . anyway u r ignred hereafter because u seem to be that type
     
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    @friendabc Please feel free to ignore. But it is hard for me to ignore that both you and OP have very similar styles of writing / responding (“ You must be that type”) . Also you responded as @cur123 by mistake all in caps and then replaced it with a “hi “! Caught you lol !

    I end my alphabetical journey here with the conclusion that A is not as bad as she represented here by B. I wish A a safe delivery and wish her journey as a mother is as beautiful as mine is! I hope when she has some downtime she can talk politics/ current affairs with her very intelligent SIL just like a lot of women do these days.

    Have a good weekend !
     
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    :clap2::clap2::clap2::clap2::clap2:
    WELCOME TO THE SITE
     
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    I like this wild chick called A.:cheer:
    I am assuming the husband of this 'working from 8am to 8 pm 'dil is taller than her.:grazy:
     
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    + 1 to all your suggestions.
     
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