We can only try to help each other get past traumas. The culture is such that women feel toxic relationships are normal. That nasty troll who blamed me for my abusive past is probably those same males who blame rape victims for their plight. India has so much beauty and so much potential to progress (it was once a 1st world country). Society starts at you teach your son and daughter. No amount of IIT and Medicine can progress a country if women are told they are lucky to end up with someone who abuses them while males can literally get away with murder. I hope IL continues to be a safe haven fir women to post queries.