@PushpavalliSrinivasan Thank you very much for sharing your thoughts . Very correctly said : it depends on each ones mindset . We can be free withnear and dears and tell them about our health complaints ( if they are ready to listen ) . But only some people make it the main topic of all their conversations , then it becomes a bit tiring for the listener . I like your attitude of not telling about health problems to others as long as we are able to manage by ourselves . After all, the term we use is is " Udambu sariyillai " and not " Naan sariyillai " .