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Discussion in 'General Discussions' started by shravs3, Apr 16, 2019 at 4:55 AM.

  1. shravs3

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    Thanks for replying @Amulet
    This is a good idea :sunglasses:
     
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    rachaputi Platinum IL'ite

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    If those moments bringing negative vibes upsetting your day, look for similar other options and vacate.

    You might not joined if had known about their relationship earlier(to intrude their privacy). I feel it is their responsibility to share before take you. Because everyone have personal opinions.

    If you find any better option, please move on for your peace.
     
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    Yes Ms. Amulet!
     
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    Thanks @Sunshine04.
    Yes this was the reason I moved here
     
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    Thanks for responding @SinghManisha
    They are sweet people though.

    Even I have heard about such cases but I think I was unprepared :smile:
     
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    Thanks for responding @rachaputi
    If I had known tat earlier I wouldn’t have chosen this option.
    Meanwhile I will search other options
     
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    Amulet Finest Post Winner

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    Rihana...
    That brings to recall the dorm room of olden days. In double-rooms, there'd be a large desk in between (A's bed and desk-chair on the other side, B's bed & chair on this side), and a ceiling-hung privacy curtain (just like those semi-private hospital rooms:facepalm:), where we cannot see each other, but hear all those shrieks from the other side.

    Yes... you do hear those shrieks from the other side.... in the dorm room as well.

    ThankGod.. I am glad I am not young any more...

    @shravs3 shouldn't put rules on PDA on the other roommates; after all, she had been there & done that, and it shouldn't be a "thing" to her no more. And besides, she could learn a thing or two. As Yogi Berra had put it "You can observe a lot by just watching".

    I wouldn't recommend moving out of the current situation, where the OP occupies essentially half a 2BHK flat, and pays 1/3rd the rent. Live entertainment, as well as a private room to entertain her conjugal visitor every weekend. There is no guarantee of such a sweet deal in any other place.
     
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    People still follow tat!
    @Amulet I know it’s a good deal.
    Since I wasn’t aware of their relationship I was uncomfortable. Now tat I know about it I need to accept the reality and obviously who am I to stop their PDA :mask:
     
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    Hey @shravs3 ,
    I feel it should be ok for you to share the house with them.Infact you will have a room for yourself and that's a good deal .

    If you feel that you are getting in to their private space then you make some friends at office with whom you can hangout.

    More than anything I feel being secure is important as you are alone in a new city..

    Take care...
     
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    @Ammu2886 thanks for replying.
    Yes, staying safe is very important. Although, they seem to be good towards me anything else shouldn’t matter.
     

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