Hi All, My post is going to be quite detailed about my IC problem. Hope that is fine with this forum. I am married for 4 years now. We did not indulge in actual penetrative sex during the initial one year. Later on,in our second year, we wanted to get pregnant and we started to have penetrative sex. By till now (all these three years of trying), we are only trying but never could achieve penetrative sex. I have seen gync and they did physical examination of me and confirmed there is no problem with me. I was suggested to use lubricant. We also visited urologist for my husband. All tests have been performed and the dr confirmed he is also fine and fit for penetrative sex. During our IC, I can feel that I am wet but my DH is not able to penetrate at all. He keeps hitting somewhere (mostly he ends up only inside inner labia). Also, its been hard for him to locate my vagina without my directions. Is this normal ? Now, as both of us are not medically examined with any problem, but still unable to have proper sex, getting pregnant is way too long for us. You can imagine the pressure from family members and also the peer pressure. I know this case of us is peculiar. Have anybody have gone through and heard of anything like this. If so, am looking for motivational incidents to keep me going through this.