TTC and periods are getting irregular - need help

Hi IL's

My period was regular until we decided to have a baby. Since then its been delayed plus the flow was reduced from 3 days to 1. So after 3 months of trying i consulted a gynec and had tests taken. My overies, uterus and hormones were fine but had low hemoglobin level. So doctor prescribed me iron tablets and M2 tone syrup for 3 months. My hemo level has become normal and periods were delayed only by 2 days. But the third month the periods was delayed again i thought i was pregnant since it never was delayed more than 5 days but had my period on cd45 which is on July 14. This month we couldnt try as i went to my hometown and dh wasnt well but yet dint get my periods yet (I have. Its frustrating and im also afraid that it might cause problems in conceiving. Has anyone been in my situation? Could someone help me with this situation? Im afraid bcos irregular periods is a big problem in conceiving. With this type of cycle im not sure of my fertile days. Would appreciate ur help.

 

Thanks reachingskies. Will speak with my doctor abt it. Is ur periods regular now?

 

K hope we would get our good news soon. Every month i start a cycle with hope but at the end i lose hope and confidence. When the cycle extends it scares me that i might not get pregnant. Everywhere i go i just see lots of pregnant woman. Im happy for them but at the same time i feel bad that im not able to be in that position. DH dint go for a test yet, he says he would check only when we complete 1 year of TTC. Im just fed up with everything. Y is it so difficult? I known few girls who were weak than me got pregnant in just one try whereas here 6 months have passed but not a single hope. But im thankful to god that im not having PCOS or other problems but nothing good is also not happening. Sorry for bothering you its just i dont have anyone to share these and i wanted to let it out. Thank you for responding earlier it just felt good to see a reply.

 

Thanks Akanshaa. I know im not supposed to stress but sometimes im not able to just control my thoughts. In few days i have to attend a function which is conducted for the pregnant lady if i go there deftnly all relatives will qstn me abt baby they would never understand that it would hurt me.. Im just worried how im going to attend that function. Im trying my best to just ignore things. Guess its all part of our life. Thanks for ur wishes dear.

 

Hi Reachingskies

Im not hurt with what u said i agree with whatever u said. Those points are my side of argument to DH too. Im 28 yrs and he is 32 yrs. His brother had low sperm count problem and he is afraid that he might have it too but he is just being adament in checking it. U know its always the girl who will be blamed by the society for all problems. After 3 months of TTC my mother blamed me saying that it is me who is having fertility problems just to prove her wrong i went to doctor and had basic checks done and the result was normal only then she stopped hurting me. Im really fed up with my life i just think y in the world did i marry? Having so many problems with dh and his family on the other hand its about the baby. No one in my family had infertility problems so kind of hoping that it would be the same in my case too. I know trying to concieve may take a little long for few couples its just that i want to make sure that we both dont have any fertility problems bcos finding it out after a year and then starting treatment for it would be a long time.... But im not able to do anything and this helplessness makes me go mad.. Wish life would be easy sometimes.. Will keep trying to convince dh about the test.. Will c what fate has in store for me. Hope this horrible part of life just passes away. Thanks for ur advise. Im sorry for ur problems but atleast u know what u r battling with wish u that all the problems will be solved and u would be a mom soon. Lots of baby dust to u.