Hi,I have two major probs and am unable to understand how to handle it: In two months my son will turn three nd he still does not like to go to the toilet. If he has to pee he will simply remove his shorts and do the needful! But he seems to be very scared of sitting on the toilet seat. he even takes his afternoon nap without wetting the bed. Once he wakes up he gets off the the bed, removes his shorts and pees! Now added to all this is that he has just started going to nursery...about a week back...he is very scared to go to school...he cries almost the entire day in school and does not eat anything. watever he eats he vomits. The school told me not make him wear diapers since they take the kids to the toilet every hour. But now the prob is that he is wetting his clothes. He is not removing his shorts in school. How do i make him feel comfortable in going to the toilet? A little background: he is the only child and is not used to interacting with too many people.