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The ethics of faking an orgasm :-)

Discussion in 'Intimacy' started by Rihana, Oct 4, 2012.

  1. Rihana

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    Ladies,

    In the context of the average married Indian couple, what do you think about the ethics or morality of the woman faking an orgasm?

    Maybe one of the following?
    - It is morally wrong.
    - Chee chee, Indian women don't do such bad bad things.
    - It is a white lie, nothing more.
    - Few Indian men care about the woman's pleasure anyway...
    - Honesty is the best policy
    - OK as long as MIL is unaware of it

    None of the above?

    Thread is not seeking responses of a confessional nature. Rather, what are your views on it? Think of it like the dowry practice. Your views on it might differ from your actions.

    This being an online forum, please try to only share your views on the morality of said act.
     
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  2. Rihana

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    Me thinks that honesty is the best policy. Any deception at such moments does not jell.

    But, in the grand scheme of things, perhaps faking an orgasm fares better than pleading a non-existent headache.
     
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  3. fencesitter

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    how are ethics and orgasm related??
     
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  4. Rihana

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    via the "faking".
     
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  5. Maggie2009

    Maggie2009 Gold IL'ite

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    IMO, nothing wrong, just a white lie akin to "No, this dress doesn't make you look fat" and "yeah, this tiny paunch definitely makes you sexier". as long as it is'nt faking all the time (which smacks of a serious problem) it is totally OK.
     
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    oh god!!! so called dowry practice is haunting men even in.... :spin
     
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    ethics question is nt applicable here.I'd say,nothing wrong in faking
     
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    Scene: the cafe/restaurant

    Jerry Seinfeld to his friends: c'mon, who fakes an orgasm? Do you think the guy is stupid that he can't know it?

    Elaine: *with a cute smirk* you didn't know it.

    Jerry: whaaat? You faked?

    Elaine: yes, i did.

    J: you really faked? Was it just once?

    E: well,, maybe a couple of times..

    J: *in a louder voice* you did more than once? Why?

    E: well, i was tired, not in the mood and wanted to go back to sleep.

    J: but what about the moaning, screaming (2 other things i can't remember)?

    E: *points with her spoon* fake.. Fake.. Fake ... Fake...

    Moral of the story:

    another pearl of wisdom from "the show about nothing".

    I think this episode is named the mango.
     
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  9. Ragini25

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    Orgasm is similar to math :) big O notation is used to describe the limiting behavior of a function when the argument tends towards a particular value or infinity :)

    Honesty is the best policy, Rihana. I vote the same choice as you voted.

    Rihana - you have created a thread which is going to be a magnet to attract one member to post here, and he will enjoy sending PMs to you and IL-ites courtesy this thread :) LOL!
     
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  10. indianguy2010

    indianguy2010 IL Hall of Fame

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    Wow Ragini....!!you guessed right.:rotfl That member( I guess it is me, correct me if my guess is wrong) has been attracted already.:) Two things are worth posting now:

    1) That member(me) is hesitating to participate in this context. Because, any discussion on a sexually explicit context is punishable in IL, with an infraction. In July 2011, for posting some sexually explicit content in a thread, I have been issued one infraction (suspension for 15 days) with a stern warning that any second time posting of sexually explicit matter will lead to my expulsion from IL. ( see my profile). A discussion on faking of orgasms will certainly involve sexually explicit contents, though it may be general in nature, not referring to any person.

    2) that member (me ) writes PM to the OP in threads, or you can say 'enjoys to write' PMs to the OP:rotfl)only when the OP's personal problem is at discussion. Here the matter is in general context, not in referance to any one's personal context. Hence, I will not (or you can say, will not ' enjoy to' write PMs to the OP.:)

    See you later. Stay in touch. Bye.:)
     
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