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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by cpriyanka, Jan 23, 2012.

  1. cpriyanka

    cpriyanka New IL'ite

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    Hello,

    My husband is going to go abroad for long time by the end of this month..and i want to give him as many surprises as i can so that the memories could last for long time and it would help us to be strong in our long distance relationship....
    I would love to hear suggestions to make these days special for him...

    Please reply soon..
     
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  2. JustMyself

    JustMyself Gold IL'ite

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    Plan for a special evening. We had one evening like that, and my DH still talks about it.

    1. On a full moon night, we had meal on our terrace (on the floor.. on blanket)... and just sat there chatting with him, till late night. It was a warm night, so the evening breeze from the trees (juz 3-4) near by, with a stary sky, was really wonderful.
    2. Give him an oil massage before bath over weekend.
    3. Pack a few 'love you' notes in his suitcases along with his shirts.
     
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  3. tanoshii

    tanoshii Platinum IL'ite

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    Those were good ideas girl.
    Brings back my memories too.
    The dinner/picnic on the terrace sure sounds romantic. If the weather isn't cordial, go to a restaurant or better yet, a candle light dinner at home.
    How about taking a sweet picture of the two of you and placing it in his wallet or suitcase. A framed one will be good to place on his desk, so he'll keeping looking at you every now and then. :)
     
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    Hi Priyanka

    I am sure you know what husband likes and what not. So I am sure you will plan accordingly. Make his favourite food. As JustMyself said, terrace dinner seems wonderful, Even candlelight dinner seems wow, maybe pack few recent pics of you and him, some love notes, I love you etc. If he likes some specific gifts, pack few of those.

    As JustMyself pointed out, massage seems a good idea, you give him and he gives you :)

    From love making point if he has anywish or any fantasy maybe carry it out. Not sure if he has shared it with you but maybe you can try to find out what he likes and then surprise him.
     
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    thanks for your tips..we had candle lite dinner last evening and it was wonderful..i made gajar ka halwa for him..the way his mom makes it..so it was great..

    I am waiting for more such suggestions...especially something different..
    kindly share ur experiences..its nice to hear them..
     
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    That must have been real sweet. Am sure he'll remember it everyday.
    This is a silly thing which I do at home everyday...or better said I have to!!
    When I see a mist covered mirror I have to write on it. Everyday after bath I doodle on the bathroom mirror..Usually stupid stuff - flowers, mehndi designs, practise writing random stuff and if nothing else comes to mind my name and his enclosed in a heart. So when he goes to bath next he always sees it.

    Had a fight yesterday and wiped it all off in anger and was sooooooo melted to find he'd done it for me today cos he went in first :).

    Write him small messages there..he'll never expect it. And he'll definitely remember it.
     
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    Sweet :) It is these little moments that makes a happy marriage :)
     
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    Hi Priyanka

    I am glad you had a very good evening with husband. Moments like these are very precious. I would say priceless. You can't put a value on those.
    Are you working? It will keep you busy and help you not to miss him that much. Not sure if you are going to join him abroad after some time. That will be awesome right if you could join him?

    I sent you a private message not sure if you got that
     
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    hey thanks for the ideas..actually i wouldn't be joining him as i am into studies and have my exams in coming few months..so can't really go and meet him..
    I would make sure that i keep some notes for him in his clothes while packing for him..this sounds great na..
    I have made a spcl plan for him for tomorrow..just hope it works out finely..would post about it once it gets worked out..till then cya..
     

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