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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by henna_salehji, Apr 10, 2006.

  1. henna_salehji

    henna_salehji New IL'ite

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    hey all,
    i am henna from canada & just join this group and i would like an opinion/suggestion any information about impotency whether it is pschological or physical can it b cure or not and after marriage suddenly u get to know that ur husband is impotent will u live with him regardless it can b cure or not

    thanks
    bye
     
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  2. Vidya24

    Vidya24 Gold IL'ite

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    Hi Henna

    Impotence can be induced by both physical and psychological issues. It can be permanent or temporary. In many cases when men are under stress, it is temporary. Many men who migrate for employment do experience this at one time or other in their life. What with office, boss and life pressures- it is natural.

    There are many good websites that offer good information on this.

    As to your question on whether one should stay in the marriage. Yes, if the condition can be tackled physically, then it might be a good idea to give the relationship a sincere try. Also, if the couple are okay with solutions like adoption, then also they can stay together.

    But there is also an issue of sharing proper information. If the condition existed before marriage and was not revealed to the wife, then the couple need to talk about it seriously.

    I hope I have been of ome help. These days, they say that all men suffer this condition at one time or other in life. So it may not be as serious as it appears.

    Take care.
     
  3. henna_salehji

    henna_salehji New IL'ite

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    thanks

    hi vidya,

    thank you so much for ur help

    take care
     
  4. bharthi

    bharthi Junior IL'ite

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    Two separate issues

    Henna,

    You need to think about it as two different issues.

    1. One is the biological issue of impotency or male fertility. There could be many reasons for it and it might not be as big as you imagine. Sometimes it just takes a little time. Talk to a fertility specialist and you should be good to go.

    2. Second is the relationship issue of whether he knew about his impotency before marriage. If yes, then it boils down to how much you are willing to forgive him. If no, then it becomes an issue of whether you would be able to live without kids or with adopted kids. Regardless, you only can decide what is right to you.

    Bharthi
     
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    way of thinking makes it

    hi henna,
    i agree with Vidhya..it may be permanent r temporary.uy cango and consult docters regarding this there will a solution for this.but at this instance of time ur cooperation and encouragement is very important to him to make him strong.u should also consider how loving caring he is towards u.becoz as per my views sexuallife is a part of life but it is not heart of life.if this problem is permanent..still u can stay with him its depends how we r thinking abt the problem if we r taking it in apositive way u cant loose a partner who is very luving caring.comming to ur family part of kids and ur dreams u can even try it as science is well developed in such sofisticated countrues like Usa,r u can adopt some body.i suggest u be brave to tackel with this and make ur hubby brave with ur luv an care.in front of luv and care any problem is a small pae nut.decorate ur life with patience and gud understanding.all the best.

    With cheers,
    nisha:wave
     

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