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Struggling to let go and be peaceful. Please help!

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by Cheerup89, Mar 16, 2016.

  1. vjbunny

    vjbunny IL Hall of Fame

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    You are doing your best n its not wrong u dnt feel any sympathy bcs it all cms to how she treated a broken mirror can be glued but its reflection will not be the same as before...
     
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    Iamagoodgirl Platinum IL'ite

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    Just plan trip and then announce it.
    Pay some amount to your mother/brother/sister.Tell them to book vacation for you and hubby for special occasion like valentine,anniversary.
    Make it look like oh it was surprise!
     
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    Wow after all details provided that is all you gathered from her post? MIL and SIL use guilt and manipulation to control DH. Family needs 99.9% of the time above their marriage? That sounds healthy to you? A newly married couple not enjoying the start of their marriage because they are always taking care of SIL! They help their family constantly but are rarely allowed the opportunity to spend time together? Her in-laws are dramatic selfish people who don't deserve her kindness or her help! I shudder to think the kind of in-law you are/would be...
     

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