Omg! Men like you are the reason indian wives suffer post marriage depression Are the wife and kids not his family? It is the same wife who gave him her everything, left her parents and home, shifted places n gave birth to kids who are as "his" as they are hers. Now if you gonna say all women leave their homes and adjust...well then take this - all women give their everything for their husbands n family why cant the men show some love and affection?. Really if women get fat and husbands lose interest then women shod divorce men who are losing hair or getting pot belly or who is not maintaining hygeine or turning her on as per her wishes.