Hi everyone!! I am a new member. After lot of thinking posting my query here.i guess it's a bit difficult to open up about one's personal life. I am married with kids. it's been 12 years now since I got married . It's not as happy as I make it look my relationship with my husband. He went abroad after a year or two after we got married n then came back n right after 5 years or so things started to change. I could sense it but of course I could not make what's the real problem is. He got busy in his work n me in my kids n chores. There was no couple time ...nothing. Current situation is there's no intimacy I mean he tells I am looking fat so he's not attracted . Once in a while when intimate he can't reach orgasm. He just ask whether I am done n that's it. I feel this is damaging our relationship. We just stay under one roof leading separate lives. We do talk about kids n all but not like we used to. He says everything is finished between us long before etc etc...all this dialogues r stressing me out. I still feel it's because of our intimacy issues everything is affected. I hope I am making some sense n u ladies understand what I am trying to express. It's really truly my first time about opening up about my personal life hence a bit all over the place. Thanks for reading pls do reply.