I am actively involved in Indus Ladies for the past few months.Whenever I want to share something with the readers of this forum,I found the topic started in the next day. Not only that,but when I have some doubts in my mind,after a day or two I find the answer to my questions written by a IL member. Usually,when I am about to sleep,I plan to write about a topic in our forum.Next day,when I open today's post I find it there started by someone else. Few such threads are, 1.I am happy.Is it wrong by swarnalatha. 2.Churidhar in 80's. 3.Pitru dosha in elder sons. 4.Why vegetarian? 5.How to separate stainless steel glasses? 6.Microwave hazards. To mention a few. During maatu pongal,two stainless steel glasses were stuck with each other and I put them in boiling water to separate.I planned to write them in IL and I found the thread started. Whatever my MIL speaks insultingly,I have remained silent for the past 10 years and was fuming inside.I was unable to confront her as I consider it as a disrespect.Now as I am thinking whether this encourages her to talk more I happened to read the thread --which is correct? Does this happen to you? Am I imagining things? What do you think about this?