So, Your Line is Clear Now.

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So, Your Line is Clear Now................:spin


Today someone near to me asked about the wedding plans of my sister. I have updated about the happenings in a brief.


So what follows next.. they said.. so your line is clear now…. This is not unexpected to me. I’m habituated to this stuff from my friends & relatives, of course it may not be the same sentence always but all of them convey the same summary.



Many of my friends and class mates have got married (including guys) and some of them have kids too. Still few girls are there for my company :hiya. Thank god.. So in that way I’m a bit safe and can answer something.



Generally, whenever somebody asks me “When you are going to get married?”.. to be on safe side for some time, I tell them that may be after 2years. My answer is the same from last two years. :thumbsup

See, I’m standing by my word. I’m not the kind of person who retracts her own statement. That’s the way I manage to escape people when they point out that they heard the same answer 2 years back.



Question and answers apart!!!


If I ask myself, “Am I ready for marriage??”…….. Seriously I don’t know the answer. I don’t know yet. Till now since sister’s wedding is not finalised, I’m not targeted. Though some of the matches have come, I have been in the safe zone, since parents are of the opinion till Didi got married we will not proceed for the younger one. I have escaped and need not to answer anything to anybody. I thank god for that too. Because if someone asks me, whether I like certain guy’s photograph / profile I don’t have any answer.



And coming back to the discussion, it went on for few minutes. I told, “See by the time sister wedding takes place it will be mid of 2012 and parents certainly need some breathing time and 13 is an odd number, I don’t feel good about the number , so will get married in 2014.” (eppadi…. En badil)


My friend told that you are already there as per age and its best to get married by 25 and you are already 25+ and if you wait for 2more years………..

By now, I ran out of all the possible witty / simple answers…… Then I have used my bramhastraa……………….



“Why you are worrying, when parents are not even considering it??” (I know it is a bit rude.. I’m sorry my dear for that)


That is the ultimate nail in the discussion.

So Line is clear for me. But the important aspect should be whether the boy / girl are ready to travel down the line that is clear for them at that point of time.



P.S. / Disclaimer: This post is definitely not to express my displeasure of the conversation with my friend. Dear Friend, I respect you as a person and you are entitled for your opinion. The post is not to rant about you, I always appreciate & remember the conversations we had.
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