My 3 yr old is very bad in sleeping on time. She won't sleep till 9:30 /10:00 pm and its like fixed schedule. No matter how active her day way. Like she is waiting for perfect pose, perfect moment and perfect stars configuration, then she will fall sleep and it is so tiresome for us. When in car, she sleeps fast but for night time, I can not drive randomly everyday for 30 mins so she sleeps. At home she will not sleep alone in separate room or bed and needs her dad to lie down with her till she sleeps. Thats usually 2 hrs process. She prefers her dad. If he not available, or outside, she keeps missing him and won't sleep again. We both have to chores waiting once she sleeps. Like I have kitchen work standing and office work for him. So after 1 hr ot bed with her and she still singing, shifting but no signs of sleep, person with her gets frustated and gets up. Then turn of next person. If some one not lying down with her, she will keep calling to come to her or sometimes start crying which again delays her sleep. I can not cut her nap. She goes to school and they have nap times. Then at home on weekends or holidays, many times she is too excited too sleep and again I, waste 2 hrs in the afternoon trying to get her to nap, but in the evening, she just crashes. I forcefully wake her up to eat and also with fear that she won't wake up in the middle of night or for hunger. Sometimes, I feel excited that it was active day for her and quick nap so she would sleep early but in my dreams... She has also those toys to burn her energy but she does not like anything after 1- 2 times of usage. I tried music, books. No magic works on her. Please advise.