My sister and her family ( bil and kids) are visiting us since 1st week of June and they intend to stay for a month or may be more. They are looking for a business in and around our city and need a place to stay. I am a new mom (6 month old baby) and work from home. I breastfeed my baby. My hubby has a stressful job. They have two separate rooms ( one for sister/bill and 1 for kids). They share one bathroom. Most of the time nieces use our bathroom, which I’m okay with. They use the kitchen as they wish. I don’t have time to cook or clean. Now there are some things that I don’t like: a) I feel that my sister gives high priority to her kids and husband in everything (food, seating, etc. ). b) Our independence is lost, we cannot watch tv as kids are always watching tv at night. At times we don’t have a place to sit on the sofa. House is always cluttered. c) My sister or bil cooks dinner. My husband does not take lunch and eats out since there’s no leftover (not due to sis’ family. It has been like this since we have a newborn. I don’t have time and energy to cook so We used to get tiffin in the evening for dinner and I would keep leftover for my lunch and hubby would eat out) But sometimes I feel that she can make little bit extra so that my hubby can take it for lunch next day. She knows that my hubby likes home cooked food. d) nowadays, I fix my own lunch. Sis fixes her kids’ lunch. She would not make extra. She knows that I breastfeed/ pump and need food. There are times I feel dizzy without food. Sis and bil don’t eat proper lunch (either fruits or leftover from kids plate). e) At times she will use up most of the veggies and there will be nothing much left for my lunch. I know I may sound cheap but we get stuff in bulk over the weekend and don’t have time to stock up on weekdays. At times my bil gets some extra milk or fruits from outside during weekdays. We had a fight this morning about something and aren’t speaking since then...I haven’t told her anything about the issues that we are facing. Not sure what to do but feel very suffocated with everything bottled up...please help.