Should I Walk Out Of Marriage? Advice Plz..

I know, even I wanted to buy kitchen appliances, pressure cooker, blender so day before yesterday I told him casually that walmart has great deals. We should buy stuff we were waiting to be on sale.He said ok. But then out of nowhere he raised finance wala argument. When I think of his argument patterns, it usually is on weekends. I think he feels that on a weekend I might want to go someplace outside. so he creates an argument that makes no sense.
this time its a long weekend, I had no clue, got to know from a frnd. He thought if he told me I might suggest hanging out.So long weekend and black friday shopping,I am starting to think that he just wanted to avoid these kharchas so he tried to hurt me.

 

Yes, Low testosterone is the root reason he has lost enthusiasm in everything.
after 1-2 months of our marriage when i asked him get T-levels checked he simply refused saying there is no problem with him. and now after 10 months and my nagging he checked,he really had low testosterone. He used to plead me before like please dont leave me and please help me get out of this blah blah all sorts of emotional blackmail.But when I waited for him to do something about it,he didnt. So I had to take matters in my hand, I searched for doctors, Foods that boost testosterone,used go to gym with him. and now he tells me i was dominating him all this time.

 

I tried. I poured my heart out,cried a lot. he just stays quiet,doesnt say a word. If i ask him what he has to say, he starts behaving abnormally, playing the victim, haan sab meri galti hai, i m sorry, mai pair padta hoon and all that. he slaps himself. so i dont understand what to do next then i keep saying sorry sorry because i get scared when behaves like that n then situation is opposite and then I keep apologizing for nothing

 

Thanks a lot for sharing this article DDream.
Reading the article just made me realize that I was doing the right thing. I have been doing everything possible to help him, he even said thanks to me for doing this one time when he was in a good mood. I didnt understand how I came materialistic and dominating all of a sudden :/

 

Yes, it gets difficult to manage monthly bills but I manage household work and studying and keep searching/maintaining his diet. So I think he should do this by himself ,without me asking for him. but he doesnt follow the diet unless I tell him to. It irritates me to tell him the same thing everyday.
And yeah $3000 is a big amount to send but instead of cutting it down and upsetting his parents, he blamed me for it. how convinient..