Should a women lie about her physical past with other Men?

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Nowhere - hey am Sorry, if the post disturbed you. You are right, may be i do not fully udnerstand how it is like and the pain it will bring with as am not on the receving end. Somethigns.... am tolerant to, somethigns.... i am not. like wise it is i guess. so yep sorry again. i have more to write...but hey ...i have to go sell my popcorn n drinks. comming 10 rs ....tata bye. :biggrin2::biggrin2:

 

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@abcdguy

All izz Well. All izz Well. You're way to apologetic for an Attorney though. Buck up dude, you gotta be ruthless!

 

Only women are entitled to know where I live

 

I had a past. And before marriage, I told my fiance, who 's now my DH, that I did have a BF. My parents had advised me to not talk about it...but no ways I was going to listen to my parents' advise here, because even though they found the groom for me...it was I who was going to get married. And I would no matter what, not marry a guy who had such reservations. I am a normal human and having an affair prior to marriage in present times, is nothing like a crime or anything. I honesty also told him the reasons for break up with my ex. Yeah, what I point blankly refused to tell him what I exactly did with my ex. I told him that I have left those details in the past......neither will I think about it......nor talk about it!!

When I was engaged to my DH....my ex tried to create some problems in the way of our marriage. He sent anonymous messages to my DH, saying nasty stuff about me. My DH, stood by me that time and told him off!...I think my honesty paid off that time.

Though my DH sometimes teasingly persuades me to tell him to what extent I went with my Ex in terms of a physical relation--I still tell him, it doesn't matter ...its over, I have forgotten it and no matter what I wont talk or think about it in anyway. I told him what I felt was necessary.....I don't feel the need to tell every detail. I am not hiding anything...but I am refusing to talk about it..and that's different from hiding, in my opinion.

 

Also to add, if ever my ex calls me...or sends me a message--I tell it exactly as it is to my DH. I think after marriage..even if you happen to casually talk to your ex--you must share it with your DH. That keeps the transparency in marriage. However, I don't think I need to make my life prior to marriage completely transparent. That time my personal life...was only my personal life!