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Discussion in 'Friends & Neighbours' started by mimi77, Mar 31, 2015.

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  1. mimi77

    mimi77 Gold IL'ite

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    Their apartment is bang opposite ours....The lady never pulls the curtains down even at night with full lights on.....She wears revealing nighties and desperately displays herself.....its getting into my nerves even more coz she has earned real bad reputation about herself.....was outside India in some Western country for some time wherein the entire Indian community there avoided her because of her ever inviting attitude for the other sex.....how do I subtly bring it to her notice that it is severely indecent to bring about discomfort to neighbours by displaying herself in such rustic form.......Any advice please.....
     
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    Grihani Gold IL'ite

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    Just close the windows that faces her house and draw the curtains, it is really not easy to convey it since shes doing whatever it is within the 4 walls of her own house.
     
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    an act is performed repeatedly only if there are
    avid watchers out of interest or irritation...
     
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    gaze Bronze IL'ite

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    What she wears or does, be it inside her house or outside, is none of your business. If you feel ashamed to see her wearing revealing clothes, shut your curtains and stop watching her.
     
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    bhuvnidhi IL Hall of Fame

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    Close the curtains of your house.
     
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    DreamWorld Silver IL'ite

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    Even if there is one observer/on looker, people tend to show off.

    So, its better you close your front door and don't give your self much thought about her attire in her own house.
     
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    nb25 Gold IL'ite

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    Try talking to her, as if she forgot to draw the curtains. Just say, I think you forgot to draw the curtains last night, and I could see you in your nightwear. Probably she is the kind who always need to be admired, and think others are jealous of them, even if they are not? Compliment her looks a little. Then change the topic.

    Talk to her if you run into her, or are going to her place for some other favour. Don't contact her just to tell her this. Treat it as a small matter, when you talk to her, and laugh it off.

    I think it is better to make adjustments yourself than asking her, though. She must be aware of what she is doing, and her unpopularity, and still does not care. So, let it be, unless it really bothers you.
     
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    SGBV IL Hall of Fame

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    It is her business. Leave it

    If it is bothering you, then close your curtains, window and also the door facing her apartment.

    The next time when you happened to pass by her house, just turn your face to the other side.
     
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    Drop an anonymous note in her postbox
     
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    Guesshoo, that's a good idea....thanks
     
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