Sexual Favous for a Signature - My short story in Dinamalar

sapthu02 · Feb 27, 2012

a very beautiful one.. She was just so bold and how did she take her father this way.. o god,...

healthonmove · Jun 20, 2012

Sexual harassment at work place can cause long-term depression and have feelings of self-doubt, which may turn into self-blame. Such self-blame may have a negative effect on mental health, promoting feelings of depression. To avoid, be professional and assertive at work place for any chance to mess with you.

varalotti · Jun 20, 2012

healthonmove said: ↑

Sexual harassment at work place can cause long-term depression and have feelings of self-doubt, which may turn into self-blame. Such self-blame may have a negative effect on mental health, promoting feelings of depression. To avoid, be professional and assertive at work place for any chance to mess with you.
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you are right. That is the greatest cause of stress at workplace. Surprisingly it makes the victims feel guilty and confused.
regards,
sridhar

Coolchap · Apr 17, 2013

varalotti said: ↑

Hello Sathya,

thanks for the message. I do agree things like that happen in some places like the TV serials and that it is the girls' choice to keep away or go there and get caught. Agreed.

Within an hour after the release of Sunday's paper, my friend, a retired English professor called me.

He said, "thanks sridhar, for you did leave us academics out of this scandal. But take it from me, academic world is at least as bad as the tv world or the cine world. I can pin point to half a dozen colleagues of mine who insisted that the girls should sleep with them if their dissertations have to be approved."

Then can we say, that girls should also keep out of academics? Or should we say, to do Ph.D, is a girl's choice? And then no one will be prepared to marry a girl who had done her Ph.D.

I know there are girls who voluntarily sleep with their teachers probably in a hero-worshipping mode. I count them out. I am concerned with those girls who are threatened into sleeping with the Directors, their Guides and the teachers.
The crooks do not stop to think for a moment that the same thing can happen to their own girls.

I wrote this story in a fit of fury. Dinamalar appreciated my feelings and has published the story without even changing a comma. They have cut down the second story in this issue to accommodate my story.

I do not want this thread to be a discussion on my story. Let's discuss the sexual harrassment issues happening to women.

Please come out with your views, Sathya.
regards,
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Its one of the reason many say not to pursue Phd in India. many/most of the universities( IITs are not an exception. Dont forget IIT mumbai incident, IIT B incident ) are like this.Neither it comes to newspapers nor it is said by students bcz their Phd is at stake. most imp thing is parents never believe these things happen.

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