Hi all, I had written in the same forum a few days back stating how my DH is abroad for about a year and how I miss him. Now a new problem has come up for which I would need your suggestions. My DH used to send around $200 to MIL every month since he went to US. I objected to this at first, but, later agreed. In fact he never shares this info with me; I find out from transaction history/ details. I fought after the first transaction and have been mum about it ever since because, I do not want to break the peaceful relation I share with DH. Today morn, I noticed that he has sent $650 to his mother, and am quite unsatisfied with that. Around $200-$300 is ok, but, isn’t $650 too much? Regarding mil, she is working in Central Govt salary scale. She has married off her children. She and fil (no more) had crores worth property which she shared between bil and sil (nothing to DH), and now its only DH who sends her money! And, she doesn’t even buy a dress for our daughter, in spite of all this. I am all the more disturbed because DH gets angry when I spend even Rs 1000 for a personal expense and insists that I should try and close home and car loans asap. But, the same man sends money that he ought to save to his beloved mother who doesn’t even care for him or consider him as her son. Is this sort of feeling common among wives like me? What should I do to take care of my restlessness?