My husband will be going to sabarimalai in 2 weeks. He will wear malai only before 'irumudi' and not 41 days before. We had physical relationship before 3 days. My husband was telling it is not wrong. But that he will have abstinence for this 2 weeks. I am feeling guilty. How do I get forgiveness from God?
Lot of malayalee's does not follow these 41 days rituals and I know they eat non veggi.. ( don't know about their personal life) I know the people who wear mala and sell fish and meat as its their lively food and they are allowed to do that. Personally, I don't think putting mala and keeping" Vritham" really matters but being a good person is what matters. As long as we don't do any harm to anyone with mala or with out mala , I don't think you need to ask forgiveness from god. But then its JMO
