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Rip Priyanka Reddy:(

Discussion in 'General Discussions' started by anika987, Nov 30, 2019.

  1. satchitananda

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    Not much useful content in the post.
     
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    Reminds me of NaragaChaturthi - Diwali
     
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    Sunshine04 Platinum IL'ite

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    If those men were the only breadwinners of their family, they should know law will catch up with them if they do any crimes.
    Every one knows this including non educated people.

    They raped and murdered another human being.
    Priyanka Reddy case: How police cracked ‘Hyderabad Horror’ rape-murder in 24 hours
    CCTV footage and information from the puncture repairer and petrol bunk owner clearly prove that the 4 accused had done the crime.
     
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    No one here is saying they didn't do that crime.
    But not many of us agree that their immediate families too should act fully compassionate, give sound bytes brimming full of humanity and show to the world that they grieve the death of the rape victim more than their own sons/husbands.
     
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    If you have seen 'Deewar' (AB Sr's very famous movie), mother (Nirupa Roy) admonishes her smuggler son, leaves him to stay with law-abiding other son but when rowdy son dies , she sheds tears. Let us accord that right to the families here and not judge them is what we are saying.
     
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    Not judge? Come on,their son/ husband raped a girl and burnt her body. Some judgement is bound to happen! Sorry if some of us are not being ideal here..
     
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    I am not asking you or anyone to be ideal but below are @anika987 's words. See the words in bold.
    "One of the accused chennakessavulu’s mom is extremely arrogant!!
    I saw an interview and she says that “why did priyanca come
    Out late?she earns so much this and that and to top it police can’t encounter but put her son for two years or few months in jail”..
    seriously??? What an arrogant lady?No wonder she raised a bloody useless son.She herself is not okay with her thoughts..No one feel bad for those parents losing their kids."

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    So if some like me or @Mistt say 'don't quickly judge those parents or wives losing their bread earning sons/husbands and accord them the right to grieve without media hounds sticking microphones to get words out of their mouths', something is wrong with our DNA?

    Try to come out of your comfort zone and think what is their socio-economic strata, have they gone to school/college, do they understand the ramifications of this heinous crime etc. A well educated @anika987 did not know that victim's name cannot become public before the trial is complete and we are expecting these people to behave with same ethos as college educated folks?

    This is not a zero sum game.
     
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  9. anika987

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    Yes I Said that.Even at this point,I do feel only for the innocent girl who lost her life for no mistake of hers.I empathize with her family.

    I don’t think I need to empathize for those accused or their families.See their interviews.One of them even spoke ill of
    Priyanka.So they can speak bad about her coz they are grieving?coz they lost their son and we should understand that they come Under certain social Economic status,uneducated etc!I am still supposed to feel bad for them coz they lost their breadwinner etc? I am surprised. You keep pointing again and again at me and ask everyone in IL..I barely react to anyone and am
    Diplomatic.If this is making me react,it shows that am shocked.

    think about that girl for a second?? What about her parents?? She was raped!! That girl was raped by 4 men who were drunk and the emotional turmoil what she went through is NOTHING compared to what those accused families are going through.Her clothes and dignity were ripped off and she must have thought of her mother and family at that time!! Someone to help her!!!!!Are you kidding me!!!!!!

    We all went through sexual harassments and we know the pain!! This is Rape!!!!!! Understand

    It brings tears to even imagine what she went through!!!! Don’t expect people to empathize those men!!!!NO!!!

    You being a mom and assuming a girl child..DON’T!!!!

    If this happens to someone dear to us..are you saying I should understand the accused family point of view!!! Really!!!???

    I felt my reaction is very normal in this situation.

    I don’t need to be a “Mahan” and empathize for the accused family.

    I don’t need to react practically in this situation.We have every right to feel anger and get emotional.

    Anyways..you made your opinion and I made mine.Apologize if I lost my temper...nothing personal against you.
    Apologize to IL members..I don’t lose my temper like this..Will keep in check.
     
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    Absolutely. You can feel whatever feels right to you. But by saying "No one feel bad for those parents losing their kids", you are creating a division between people who feel otherwise which was not warranted in my view.
    People like us who didn't lose anything personally, except victim's family and families of 4 people who lost their sons in police encounters without proper trial, can feel empathy towards both or just victim's family or those in marginalized section. It is not an XOR gate. XOR gate - Wikipedia
     
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