Hi All, Posting on behalf of a friend . She is happily married with two small kids staying in Germany for the last few years . Although she does have some minor issues with life in Germany like lack of social life etc.. overall she has grown to liking living there . She has struggled a bit with finding jobs but has finally settled into a good job. Also Germany has many good benefits for working mothers like flexible work timings and good daycares and she manages two kids plus job without any help. Husband till recently was also on the same page, just two months back on a visit to India said he wouldn't think of returning back anytime soon. Now all of a sudden he told my friend that he has received an interview call for a very lucrative one of a kind job opportunity in India( where he gets to lead) and if he gets that he wants to go back. also he has been having some issues with his boss and this is one of the reasons for the sudden change in stance . My friend feels her career will take a hit again and its not right that she has to adjust to this move when things are finally settling for her . also she feels staying in Germany is better for her kids and they have even bought an apartment here.. She is upset with her husband and they are arguing about this. If my friend puts her foot down her husband will of course not force her to go but highly unlikely he will keep blaming her for losing this opportunity . Advice for her situation is appreciated .