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Relationships Forum Chatter & Grey Matter

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Rihana, Jun 22, 2016.

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  1. KashmirFlower

    KashmirFlower IL Hall of Fame

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    if HMS becoming a rack bully then LMS should push for 50-50 space. Or ask HMS to get her own rack. Is HMS you here? ;)
     
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    A quotable quote.
     
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    no...My two daughters.:)
    The LMS is giving up too much willingly to HMS.Not just rack space......every where.No place for another rack.:anguished:
     
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    ;) hee hee! When I gave my job up, had loads of time and energy to play the game :D
     
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    Looks like LMS loves her HMS sister very much. HMS shouldn't take it for granted. Why she is thinking she should get more rack space and even everywhere. I am sure you know better to handle this.
     
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    Please see the comments for this video. All words that can be used against a woman that all are used here.
    Just because Deepika wore that dress she becomes that ******, *****, ?
    Body shaming is the first thing done to women. (I think it is a fight against that body shaming). Feminism took so many routes. if the first one person didn't wear bikini, who might have faced several comments, we today didn't wearing that and doing parent and toddler swimming lessons for our kids. In my small town while studying degree one girl wore jeans to college and automatically our subconscious brains form a opinion on that girl that day.

    I have neutral opinion on this dress. If she can carry it or not she has to decide. I am nobody, if I like I see or stop the video.
     
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    bikini - at a beach or by the pool. jeans - to college. Deepika that dress for what seems to be a stage performance. These are one thing. Wearing dress that reveal 75% of the breasts at a place where speeches are given about women being treated as objects, is another. No?

    A woman performing on stage or in a movie and wearing such dresses, I get. Wearing such when delivering a speech or when sitting down and having dinner at a table, I don't. I've given this some thought -- it is not just the mind being conditioned to treat such dresses as 'wrong'.. no. My question is very specific -- how/why do women who are against objectification of women, wear such dresses outside a performance setting. You are talking to men (and women), face to face, and your breasts are openly visible. ?? You don't want women to be objectified and yet choose to reveal the very parts of the body that are the symbol of such objectification?

    I am not suggesting that right should be taken away. Question is about the logic or sense the woman is using in wearing such dresses, question is not about her right to do so.
     
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    I think the body itself is not symbol of objectification. (nipples and private parts needs to be covered all the time, that is one rule/law as I understood per USA country, and this is also becuase it is not beauty thing.) I think the gestures and feelings and emotions associated with her and the surrounding people there objectification happens. If she is not confident and she feels uncomfortable then immediately everybody surrounding gets uncomfortable and that sensual thing appears on faces. I will write more, with some example, now I got to go.
     
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    Exactly that is Hypocrisy. Simply hipocrisy.

    Similar to someone promoting abstaining from tobacco chewing, himself, chewing tobacco, in the advertisement. What a big mockery !!

    The female celebrities who do the above act of hypocrisy, will be insincere and dishonest in every principle , they claim to promote in their profession. In their personal lives too, such insincerity, dishonesty and lack of conviction can be seen, in every walk of life they lead.

    One should first believe in the Principle, one claims to promote.
     
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    Continuing..,
    1) I want to say that looking at some person and getting attracted with their body and having sensual/sexual feeling is different (it happens as a reaction of hormones, plain one) than objectifying a person (it happens because of complex things)
    2) For ex, just by seeing naked woman body you don't feel objectification, but in this picture you feel it is, and several examples in our movies for this.
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