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  1. Aug 9, 2018 #1931
    Rihana

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    Thank you for this observation.

    It has become the trend to label opposing views as victim blaming and cruel and more. My post was accused of this once recently and a (beneficial, for all) side effect was that it shut me up for a good two weeks. : )
     
    Rihana, Aug 9, 2018
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    Hahah join the club. This is called poster shaming for speaking ones mind without trying to be popular.That seems to be ok.
     
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    My apology if it hurt you.
    It was not easy to write.
    Thought about it a hundred times . Went back and read her threads again .Then wrote and read it many times before hesitantly pressing 'post reply'.
    Glad to see you back.
     
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  4. Aug 10, 2018 #1934
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    Yes they do - the Perseid showers peak this week! o_O:cool:
     
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    @Sunshine04
    I do not prefer to drop vague hints and dance around the issue. We both know u are talking about me so let me clear up once and move on. ( I would ..whether u would too is ur choice to to make)
    And my logic for what its worth lashing out in anger is pardonable. Attributing the blame on ur spouse after the fact and after he actually gave a viable alternative to alleviate the issue is not. Apologies and remorse should be without clauses and conditions. I didn't see it in her thread. The title didnt match the content of her posts. U might think otherwise and thats ok . Where I come from there is zero tolerance to hitting ..spouse or child. Gender is secondary..and I will say exactly what I think needs to be said. If my posts bother u please do feel free to use the report button. Its simpler and more effective than dropping hints all over the place. Adios!
     
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    Sigh, i thought it was only me, who felt so and keeps away from posting much..

    Did read something about seniors getting leeway..on that note i think i can call myself a veteran(?), and yes have felt the punch of the spewing that happens sometimes..

    I decided, I come here for knowledge sharing and learning only and some timepass.

    Had to say it..
     
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    Sunshine04

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    Ok. Moving on. This post was about you and others as well.
     
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    glad JAG and others write without mincing words and without having to write "soft" to OP, but can write in a forthright manner. Harsh if needed, but so be it.
     
    ragz2richez, Aug 10, 2018
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    Sunshine04

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    I have already replied to JAG. I would prefer no one else talks about this anymore.
    Please find other topics to talk about
     
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    ragz2richez

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    I write on whatever topics and you are free to move on if you dont want to participate further.
     
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