Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Independentgal, Nov 21, 2019.
Yes. The kids need more compassion in this situation
sorry, you feel that way.
when you hear one side of the story, it is important to evaluate. For example, I thought, OP had no voice when she said that he makes her spend all her money. Yet, she was able to get taxes filed separately".
Ok. Good point
I try not to get emotional and carried away, try to be fair and put myself on the other side as that person is not here to defend or refute.
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BTW, IL member KayKuyil earlier explained like you without snide remark.
FYI, I responded "sounded odd! I misunderstood."
OP, i do not understand , what are you trying to get from here. your marriage is not good for last 15 years. there is no guarantee , things will change.
people never change, people change, only when staying the same situation is more damaging than changing.
what is point of living as a fighting couple . living together as fighting is far far worse than living separate as 2 single happy dedicated parents, in my opinion.
kids will also be in peace after some months . i would only say, separate or live separate and do Co-parenting. Being a woman, ( i am not sure which country you are in ) , if it is usa. you will be given custody.
otherwise you can just vent here , which is also fine. but it will not solve anything.
discipline kids is completely different topic. first i feel you are not a happy couple.