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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Independentgal, Nov 21, 2019.

  1. Sunshine04

    Sunshine04 Platinum IL'ite

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    Yes. The kids need more compassion in this situation
     
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    sorry, you feel that way.
    when you hear one side of the story, it is important to evaluate. For example, I thought, OP had no voice when she said that he makes her spend all her money. Yet, she was able to get taxes filed separately".
     
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    Ok. Good point
     
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    I try not to get emotional and carried away, try to be fair and put myself on the other side as that person is not here to defend or refute.
     
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    BTW, IL member KayKuyil earlier explained like you without snide remark.
    FYI, I responded "sounded odd! I misunderstood."
     
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    OP, i do not understand , what are you trying to get from here. your marriage is not good for last 15 years. there is no guarantee , things will change.

    people never change, people change, only when staying the same situation is more damaging than changing.

    what is point of living as a fighting couple . living together as fighting is far far worse than living separate as 2 single happy dedicated parents, in my opinion.

    kids will also be in peace after some months . i would only say, separate or live separate and do Co-parenting. Being a woman, ( i am not sure which country you are in ) , if it is usa. you will be given custody.

    otherwise you can just vent here , which is also fine. but it will not solve anything.

    discipline kids is completely different topic. first i feel you are not a happy couple.
     
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