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Relationship Hijack And Banter

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Rihana, Sep 17, 2018.

  1. Thyagarajan

    Thyagarajan Finest Post Winner

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    :hello:Ok. You had ditched the ideAl idea. But no harm in posting “before-after” without face.
    At any rate, It appears that one can safely conclude there is an universal law of conservation of combined weight “LCW” for a couple.

    2. What is lost is gained Always or and almost by partner or spouse or cohort or consort.

    3. So at any given time or moment the total weight (ormass) of the couple remain united I mean - undivided- is a constant from the time of wedlock onwards.

    4. Please do not recommend for(IG)NOBLE award!

    Thanks and Regards.
     
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  2. Thyagarajan

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    a super angle to tennis score! I enjoyed.
    Regards.
     
  3. Amulet

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    Happy conversation make for affectionate couple. When that happens, good physical intimacy (also known as weight-sharing ) follows, and nobody cares about who carries how much as an individual. No longer his and hers. It is all in the joint account. :smile: The basis of all this is the sharing of nonsense between married couples.
     
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    This is funny ! Who believes in all the premarital post-dated promises ?
    At one time I had read about the idea (in a different forum) of a clearing house for anguish laden spouses who preferred to live in a different country than the one they were stuck in, because of the career prospects for the other spouse. Such problem couple would register at a website, and would have the chance to see other couples with similar issues. And when they find a suitable match, they'd swap spouses, travel, pair-up-anew, and live happily ever after. Sort of like Tinder for the marrieds. I am not sure if this web-business was launched, and operational yet.
     
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    What's so funny.??why marry a nri when you don't want to live in a foriegn country
     
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    In a marriage there is always that "exquisite pressure". Whether it be between two RI's, two NRI's, or a mixed double. People talk weird, and make promises, and may contend that all is negotiable for LOVE.
    Here is an old column (Wa-Post, 1979) about such a thing; from a precedent setting, landmark palimony case:
    Hon. Honey. Angel. Sugar-plum. Sugar-baby. Cupcake. Cookie. Pumpkin. Precious. Sweetie. Sweetie-pie. Sweetheart. Baby-doll. Doll-face. Sweet-lips. Hot-lips. Honey-lips. Honey-lamb. Lambkin. Lamby-pie. Dearest. Darling. Dumpling.
    How we talk.

    Of course, we only talk that way under exquisite pressure. And, according to Lee Marvin, the terms themselves actually mean nothing. Mr. Marvin, as you may have read, is being sued for $1 million by Michelle Triola Marvin, with whom he lived steadily, though unwedded, for six years. Michelle contends that Lee loved her, and vowed eternal support. Lee insists his vows were "idle male promises" -- a great natural title for a feminist pamphlet -- and states categorically he did not love Michelle.

    But last week, Michelle's lawyer read the closing of one of Lee's letters to Michelle aloud in court. It went: "Hey baby, hey baby, hey baby, hey baby, hey baby, hey baby."

    "What did you mean by that?" asked the lawyer.

    "I can't explain," answered Lee.
    Continued at source: https://www.washingtonpost.com/arch...faf8cea/?noredirect=on&utm_term=.68a7d4a65629

    :facepalm: I am used to the address "Dumpling" in some recent emails-- perhaps refers to my "size" in a gentle sort of way, the "ling" diminution effecting the softening of the "dump" moniker.
     
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    Knowledge is like wine :D
     
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    It can taste bad when served in the wrong sort of glass....
    see: Social Drinking ??
     
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    What an Idea Sirji(madamji in our case) :grinning::grinning:. ! I loved the cinema angle to it.

    But when you said lot of NRI do that for ladki dekho then it's no cinema angle. It's reality..
     
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    Only @Amulet could come up with such solutions.
    I am wondering if there is a star package offered. Akshay Kumar and twinkle could pose as the potential bride’s brother and sister in law. The guys mother will approve the girl for sure.
    The problem arises when the brother Akshay has made it to the Forbes list but has not given his sister any gift after the ladki - dekho ceremony. MIL will be ??


     
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