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  1. Jan 4, 2019 #441
    Rihana

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    One hidden gem that most people don't know about:
    Health Savings Accounts and Retirement Planning

    The article is detailed enough without being overwhelming.

    I don't know if I would have opted for it when kids were younger and doctor visits more frequent. Also, not sure if there are any drawbacks if not planning to live in the U.S. after retiring.
     
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    I don't just because of the daily therapy deductible. I found the lowest max out of pocket plan so we pay for therapies for a few months a year and then the insurance pays for the rest. I think for people with young kids, provided they aren't babies, even if dr visits are frequent, HSA might be an option. It's best to do your own number crunching and make up your mind on this. Question - Can HSA be used for anything medical, even things that insurance doesn't cover(experimental cancer treatment)?
     
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    We do things along these lines for each other. Looking back at the years gone by, it was not like this always.

    When kids are young, both husband and wife in demanding jobs, with no daily domestic help, then how the evenings and weekends go is the test.

    Hopefully, what we manage to do at this stage of our lives does not make younger folks feel more dejected about their lives.

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    What stage? Who’s old? I’m in the younger folks category. Make it long standing marriages vs medium term marriages. Abhi toh main jawaan hoon :)
     
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    @Amica
    Watch from 0:35. Watch only Sadhana.


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    Rihana,
    Above song suits for you, too. :)
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    Thank you. : ) I noticed that in Recent Replies.. was going good till @Amulet came and became kabab mein haddi*. :mad:

    *hard to chew part in an otherwise soft kebab. : )
     
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    Every streak in public (forum) would get someone to come along and stop it.
     
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    : ) So now you know the meaning of kabab mein haddi. Here's another word to add to the vocab. Remembered it on seeing your avatar pic.
    Gustaakhi: chutzpah that is of the kawaii kind.
     
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    General timepass question:

    80+ year old man in India dies without a will. His wife died long ago. Three sons. All married with children. Two sons living abroad. Old man left a house bought with his PF money etc (so, not ancestral). Abroad sons and their families happy to make India son sole recipient of that house. India son wants to sell it right away. Abroad sons and their families willing to sign NOC's, get them notarized and send.

    Except that one abroad son has a son who is around 22 or 23 years old, and getting him to sign a NOC is not possible. Long story about the why.

    Is it true that an NOC is needed from that 22 year old also? He lives in the U.S. and has zero interest in the property or anything to do with India, relatives in India. Won't there be buyers willing to take the chance?

    Hindu Succession Act, 1956 - Wikipedia made for some interesting reading about Class I and Class II heirs.
     
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