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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Rihana, Sep 17, 2018.

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  1. armummy

    armummy Platinum IL'ite

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    Groom is secondary ... Girls will make the life hell for parents if their demands are not met and also additional blame on parents that they did not find the correct groom in case of any problems
     
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    Shanvy IL Hall of Fame

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    It was not staged, infact the onr who asked for a helicopter got so trolled there was a sequel, with justification to some of the girl's requests, because of the gender bias and how some mother's argued the brother should get it...sigh!!

    @Amulet no guarantee at all..i know of a bride who left the wedding hall after the wedding and filed for divorce. There was one where the marriage was done with so much expectations and happiness, but the girl filed divorce state trauma.. there is a trend where many kids do not believe in the institution of marriage. Given a option many would be happy staying single.. many factors play into it..and we cannot generalise it based on a few sampling.
     
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    troubledmom Gold IL'ite

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    Yeah even I felt that it might be staged. Only shock was being shown by the comedian side action the parents seemed very calm and no reaction just replying as if regular convo. Clever editing? Shock for trps

    Ok just saw shanvy reply that it wasn’t staged
     
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    troubledmom Gold IL'ite

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    Thanks. Yes I did get the very few parts which contained partial English words and helicopter girl was one of them.

    Why are you worried?
    It’s not just girls btw. Young men also fyi
     
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    shravs3 IL Hall of Fame

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    Yes I did watch the interview too.Main reason was the boy being Dalit.

    Just shared the article that not all gals fall for only rich boys... Boy may not be poor, but gal was from very rich family with bungalows and Porsche car etc
    For the sake of love she left her parents and all the wealth
     
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    @shravs3 not the Porsche rich, but we were well very off than my dh family. I married him, it was a love marriage.

    P.s. a few friends used to egg us to take from my parents, instead of slogging, but we have never taken from both set of parents..it was a principle and choice and we stand by it..and stood by it through very testing times..such times i won't want anyone to go through.
     
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    :clap2:. Yes that’s true love
     
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    nakshatra1 Platinum IL'ite

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    @Shanvy, admire you for not taking anything from either set of parents .
     
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    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    All these demands from the girls from their own parents, I am starting to think if somewhere down the line, us as parents have somehow brought up entitled spoiled brats? Like the demand for a $2.50 bag of chips at the vending machine...it starts there.
     
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    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    BTW, that wedding thread @Rihana is closed. Are you going or not?! I just must know...lol
     
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