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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Rihana, Nov 20, 2019.

  1. shravs3

    shravs3 IL Hall of Fame

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    How can anyone tolerate so much of disrespectfulness?

    Agree. Some are very tolerant outside but internally they might be suffering.
    Suffering internally or physically is more or less the same. But when both happens then I wonder why can’t they speak up ?
     
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  2. shravs3

    shravs3 IL Hall of Fame

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    Most of the advices to the OP is about explaining her mother to not worry about in-laws property and not to interfere in such things which is good.

    In that case how can she ask properties from her mother?
    Same way like in-laws have the right to decide their property share, even her mother has the right to decide.
     
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  3. Topaz49

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    Not OP asking; instead of interfering with OP's in-law property, if she wants she could give her properties to her daughter.
     
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    Sunshine04 Platinum IL'ite

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    He has tried to beat the first kid few times. Scary.
     
  5. Amulet

    Amulet Platinum IL'ite

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    Like that complaintboard.in website had pointed out about IL forum, we may have a few horrendously sad posts on the site, so that anyone else who might want to whine about their piddly tragedies, and make a production out of that in a post, would be somewhat inhibited from doing so.

    Now and then, these sorts of "how can..." questions should make us wonder whether we can believe stuff on the internet. OTOH, the human condition is such that all manner of self-harm is completely within scope:facepalm:.
     
  6. Sunshine04

    Sunshine04 Platinum IL'ite

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    Just read this website. Thanks for the link
     
  7. yellowmango

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    Or the IL members are careful about not upsetting the pregnant op specially when she has mentioned multiple times that she loves her mother and knows she means well.
     
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    +1

    More hassles lined up, like bringing up the twins. So yeah.
     
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    You are right.
     
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    is he? Reminds me of 'the ship of theseus'
     

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