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Discussion in 'Parents & Siblings' started by RShashi, Jan 6, 2020.

  1. SKoundinya

    SKoundinya Senior IL'ite

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    Dear op,
    I can imagine what you are going through as I too have regrets that I could not visit my father in his last days. I had severe health issues being on anxiety medicines which made me vulnerable and senstive and my body and mind were not in my control . so even though he was in hospital on death bed in coma, I could not visit, I visited my family only on 3rd day of his death after the cremation. I had guilt for years and years that I could not visit him. that made me more depressed, then I realized some of the things are not in our control, we dont know why it happens and why we happen to be puppets and cannot have control. I started to forgive myself since things were not in my control especially my health. with time I could slowly come out of that anger and regret. Even today it is a failure on my part, but I am learning to consume the failures in life.
     

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