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Reconnecting With Bil And Co Sister

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by Meghaa, Oct 20, 2017.

  1. AshMenon

    AshMenon Gold IL'ite

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    As long as your BIL and CoSis apologized and tried to mend the relationship, I would say should give them the benefit of doubt. Stay friendly with them, there is no need to go an extra mile. You do not want people pointing fingers on you being the troublemaker. Since your BIL and Cosis have extended an Olive branch, accept it, while being a little careful. Maybe they are genuine, maybe they have some other intentions. Nevertheless, as you yourself mentioned, be cautiously optimistic. :thumbup:
     
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  2. Sandycandy

    Sandycandy IL Hall of Fame

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    Reconnect on your own terms with zero expectations and no dissapointment when the BIL and co sister behave a certain way. There is no point reconnecting if it makes you very uncomfortable or you lose your peace of mind.
     
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    Meghaa Silver IL'ite

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    I agree not everyone thinks/feels the same way. But expecting from others what you will not do for them is not reasonable, is it? ( in an equal relationship, well atleast I think this should be an equal relatioship)
     
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