Ranting

I thinkit has a lot to do with the fact that your husband is working so hard at the job.
Blessings are fine but someone has to put in the hard work to earn the money.

Please appreciate that. Unless it s a fun job.....no one wants to be at it instead of celebrating special day with family.

Celebrate the special days whenever you all can find free time . Go out then or stay at home and celebrate.
I have celebrated festivals a day before or a day after to include husband .

Same with birthdays......cut a cake at mid night and celebrate whenever you are free. Or have two celebrations. One without him and a second one with him.

Unless he is avoiding being with the family.....one can't really fault him. A job is a job. He could soon get a change of boss and that boss could be less dependent .

Have fun with what you have.
As long as all are heathy and around.....everything is workable.
Look at the water in the glass op.....

 

Looks like you need some hobbies to keep u occupied because you are stressing out

When ur hubby is genuinely busy plan things when he is free

Or as him to talk to his manager abt family time


Or ask him to delegate or take turns with colleague if he cant handle in off business hrs

 

go for a vacation asking his available dates. my husband also like this from the 6 years of marriage.. I am used to it.. I dont know for what sake my husbang goes on work trips and work hard. he never show me his financial status or reveal anything. he manipulates. would say I truly understand your stress and talk to him .