Query As A Human

I feel any person born in this earth or for that instance any living being needs to be accepted with minimum acknowledgement. But the world runs differently. So we should gain acknowledgement ourselves. Else we will end up worried. So is something wrong with a person when everyone ridicules him or her for silly reasons like buttery finger or not in salary of lakhs or being not in FORIEGN nation etc. Maybe I am thinking too much

 

I will appreciate all the valuable responses. Because when issues crop up in my life or my buddies I usually say that we are responsible or at least let's see how to respond n grow from problems or ridicules. Let it go(I know it is hard) but that is how I will be in peace. But someone told me I am wrong because now because of my this let go attitude people are taking me for a ride( that was true but now I am trying to be assertive ) but still this person (elder to me a lot n my great well wisher in my family) thinks I am a fool and calls me mad(in phone). But I strongly feel I am responsible for how people behave to me and I need to grow assertive and understand my stand , what is important for me etc. I am doing it. But some putting down relatives (just 2 people as many of my side and husband side relatives r good). are calling my that WELL WISHER and asking some unwanted questions and they call me too to talk or ask some putting down questions for which (don't u have good home only studio flat etc) I answer patiently " its ok sissy we will shift soon once my husband changes to long term project". But inside I will be having a heart ache. Now this well wisher calls to say don't attend those(those 2 peoples) .So I don't want to run away. I can only reduce talking to those sisters. Which I am doing now. I feel I am alright.I feel little confused above as my well wisher is angry on me.

 

I Iam still learning things and becoming assertive. Hope I become aassertive person soon .

 

Hope I become more sensible ,helpful and kind as u say @Amica .Thanks .