Yes Yes...... My way....... Hey.... Hey..... No pointing i have permission......... See here http://www.indusladies.com/forums/married-life/245441-what-wives-can-do-strong.html ok now here are my tips.......... Will be using IL users ID's..... I'm inviting trouble..... But like it...... He he he.... 1. Be like NAKSH :biggrin2: BE ORIGINAL..... Dont try to impress anyone.... Be yourself....... You are the best in the universe... No galaxy, no planet can have a person like you..... Your DH and inlaws liked you because you were what you were..... When you try to impress you are at unrealistic behavior which you cannot sustain in the long run and when you return to your normal behavior they feel you have changed......... So be YOU..... Normal....... 2. Be like Dinny :hide: BE FEARLESS...... Always be ready and Excited to try something new...... Be ready to make mistakes...... Sometimes making mistakes brings you closer....... It lowers expectations....... It shows you dont try to be perfect.... You are comfortable in your own skin.....
3. Be Like Cheeniya HUMBLE, LISTENER humility pays....... In diffrent ways......... Even if you know everything about something or everything and DH or in-laws are blabbering about it all wrong give them a patient ear..... After you have heard it gently nudge them that actually it is this way not that.... For pointers read an FB by Cheeniya at FP...... 4. Be like KAMLA WARM, WELCOMING, SURPRISING.... Sometimes we get people that come to our house who are not easy to be with....... But we have to be warm and have a welcoming attitude towards them cause what you feel gets translated either on your face or through body language........... And if they start irritating you then surprise them with something they dont expect.... So that they dont know hoe to react....... Round 1 KO.... He he he.
5. Be like SATCHI :shock: DONT TAKE SIDES....... Never back your favourites in an argument but from the start show that you are with the one who is right...... This shows that you are a not to be influenced and thus will help you garner respect for your stance and more than likely will be backed by DH to take responsibilities if need arises........ 6. Be like ANITAP..... Show SPORTING SPIRIT....... Well we can be right or wrong.... We fall and we get up........ We win and we loose...... But important is to not be too moody if you loose or are wrong in a situation but also important is not to rub it in if you won or are right in an argument..... Be like Anitap.... The Zen master....
There you go Quebec. Though I didn't see my name, I stand with what is right Good compilation. I do not know much about some of the names you mentioned, but I'll take your word for it.
Q?? Aakhir Q??? Naksh!!! He's one person I admire a lot.Because he never pretends.He doesnt make a post or thread to get "likes".The impetus behind those posts are what he feels about the subject.He's so genuine...I have yet to come across somebody on this forum who is as genuine as him.I hope and want to believe that is how he is in his real life too That smiley is very misleading....It gives an impression that I have paid you to write "something" about me.:evil: mistakes??? No nooo I dont make MISTAKES....I make BLUNDERS...HUMONGOUS BLUNDERS.. hubby says....he has lost all hopes...and that I am hopeless hmmmm thats true....I believe in it. Nobody can give me a complex :biggrin2: I am just over confident about myself. But I aspire to be @SATCHI.....she's an inspiration. kneesmiley
Good tips QB carry on:mrgreen: You know by mistake I deleted this thread yesterday when those call girls threads were flooding.......hehehe Then in the evening when I came to IL again thinkingsmileyI saw my mistake and immediately brought the thread back, or God knows what all I will have to hear from you:crazy
IL Mother....... There cannot be an equal...... For a son a mother is sarvagun sampann.......... PERFECT....... And perfection cannot be reached...... So the reason for not using your ID.......... It can only be aspired to......
A.. Aaan....... It tells that you didnt pay enough.... He he he........ NO NO NO............... PHALEEZ PHALEEZ.... Dont........ I need an acomplice in my evil plans............ If you always favour right person then....... OMG...... Nooooooo........... Naksh :biggrin2: is Naksh :biggrin2:
Oh... You will hear from me alright......... This does not spare you from me...... YouRe'next..... Hu ha ha...
